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dirtywhiteboi Member
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Brenda wrote: | | Gynophile wrote: |
I just out every single one of them. I've never been wrong yet --- even when it come to the pretty gay boys.
The autogynophiles I can spot a city block away. |
How do you know you are always right?
- Brenda |
She clocks with her eyes open!
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 8:54 pm Post subject: |
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| dirtywhiteboi wrote: | | Brenda wrote: | | Gynophile wrote: |
I just out every single one of them. I've never been wrong yet --- even when it come to the pretty gay boys.
The autogynophiles I can spot a city block away. |
How do you know you are always right?
- Brenda |
She clocks with her eyes open!
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Exactly.... It's not in the slightest bit difficult. They want to think it is, but they think there's a woman trapped in their head, too....
That conjures some funny cartoon images, eh Esse..... Think of the little dude climbing up that giant woman's body - LOL.
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free2bme Member
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Brenda wrote: | | Gynophile wrote: |
I just out every single one of them. I've never been wrong yet --- even when it come to the pretty gay boys.
The autogynophiles I can spot a city block away. |
So how do you know how many false negatives you have had? And How do you know you are always right? Do these people tell you that you are right or do you just get definite corroboration sometimes and just assume you are right others?
BIW where do you come across all these WBT?
In nay case I have no doubt that some can read me ... but as i said I met some there is no way in hell I would read... and I can assure you I've met a lot more WBT than you and probably a wider variety then you have and that my T-dar is AT LEAST as good as yours...
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You can't assure anything. Gyno and I both live in NYC where you can't take two steps without seeing some dude trying to come off as a woman. Some are better than others, but if you can't read it, then you've probably been living in a cave somewhere.
Gyno, have you seen the guy on the 6 train who's a dead ringer for Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie? I don't know who he's trying to fool.
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Brenda Member
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="free2bme"] | Brenda wrote: |
You can't assure anything. Gyno and I both live in NYC where you can't take two steps without seeing some dude trying to come off as a woman. Some are better than others, but if you can't read it, then you've probably been living in a cave somewhere.
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LOL! Well it seems you guys do make the lives of at some WBT easier after all!!!
BTW if that were so, why is there a need to "out" them ?
I love the contradictions here!!!
- Brenda
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Gynophile Member
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:55 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, this get's richer by the moment........
Here's a person IDing as a "classic/true transsexual" (they have very strict hierarchies) - he's trashing GLB/TGs and autogyno transsexuals. Obviously, this dip doesn't get it that self-respecting lesbians don't want any part of him, either.
He's talking about people like the crew over at places like BF.com, and our resident autogynophile and devotees.
He sure doesn't want anything to do with autogynophiles like, you, Mr. Bred. Guess there's no honor among, ummm, men in dresses.
The GLB’s Sexualization of Transsexualism and Intersexuality
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Though there may be a few exceptions (there are some who claim they don’t identify as either gender) virtually everyone, even the vast majority of the intersexed, solidly identify as either male or female. The entire universe is subject to singularities and exceptions; I am not addressing those few who don’t identify as either male or female. But, please keep in mind that exceptions are not the rule…just aberrations to the norm. And, don’t even try to go to the “what is normal” argument. I can define normal and know it when I see it…[a true, binary, patriarchist]
Make no mistake about it, homosexuality is all about sex. It’s all about doing the dirty-dirty. Visit the more popular GLB blogs and look for yourself…you know how to find them. The GLB is all about repealing sodomy laws, same-sex marriage, and public displays of affection....
You won’t see posts with an overwhelming theme of sex on the run-of-the-mill straight blogs; you won’t see the the overwhelming theme of sex on the intersex blogs; you won’t see it here on my blog. In the big scheme of things what differentiates homosexuals from those who are not is their sexual orientation…their sexuality…there sexual attraction to others of the same sex; their obsession with sex...
....[T]hough I do think of marriage in a traditional way between a man and a woman, do not support it [gay marriage], and would vote against it, if the GLB succeed in gaining the right to marry my world will not end.....
....[T]hanks largely to the internet and a few out and proud homosexual trans activists, one began to see GLBT more often and the term transgender had grown to include not only transsexuals, but also crossdressers, transvestites and drag queens…and, just a few years after that, the GLB and those same activists had fully succeeded in colonizing classic/true transsexuals along with the others into the GLBT.
.....No one has the right to sexualize me, or any other classic/true transsexual, by placing us under the transgender umbrella which, in turn, is part of the larger GLBT political construct...
... The homosexual trans activist [<~~~ Bred] are part and parcel to the entire rape of our legitimacy and are at least as responsible as the GLB for society’s view of us.
The GLB has sexualized our gender identity, raped our gender status, colonized our support, and spit on our legitimacy.... [you spittin' on people Bred?]
http://tgnonsense.wordpress.com/2009/03/18/the-glbs-sexualization-of-transsexualism-and-intersexuality/
NOTE TO SELF: Contact this dude and tell him about Bred and his devotees at Mich Fest.
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 1:50 pm Post subject: |
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Admittedly, Post-modernism and it's first cousin, gender "theory", are complicated, dense things to get one's head around.
Gender "theory and post-modernism have given "us" post-feminism without women's rights --- post-racism without an end to racism --- post gay pride without equal rights for gay and lesbians.....
They are morally and politically bankrupt.
They amount to nothing more than feel good, anything goes vulgar individualism. They've drained the L/G Pride Movement of any meaningful politic.
The TG/trans "agenda" perpetuates the issues of race, class, sexist gender constructs and unearned privilege. It's based in the same hegemony from which these things spring.
Post-modernism and gender "theory" have been dictating the course of the LGBTQ "community" since the 1990's.
What have L/Gs got to show for it?
TGs/trans have rights and privileges that L/Gs do not enjoy. Bred can be married to a natal woman - he is.... He can divorce her and marry a natal man, if he wishes. Let's see what happens if we try that in most of the States of the Union. We can't adopt or foster children in some states. Bred can. Why are we carrying Bred's water when so much of what we need to live dignified lives is going unattended to?
Between the HIV/AIDS epidemic and the TG/trans "movement" an entire generation of essential, bedrock L/G work has been left undone. Why? So post-op men can go about their stealth filled lives and never look back to those of us left behind.
What' do we have to show for all that benevolent maternalism? A handful of states with unequal domestic partnership "laws", men in women's bathrooms in Massachusetts?
Shame on "us" ! ! ! !
The issues of race, class, sexist gender constructs and unearned privilege are starting to tear apart the TG/trans "movement" from within.
It was inevitable.
These things can only stay papered over by faux identity "rights" movements for just so long.
The following post offers a glimpse into how that is playing out in the trans "community".
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Gynophile Member
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 1:54 pm Post subject: |
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Well, well....
Seems a lot of what Dirt, me, and others have been saying about the sexism, racism and unearned privilege in the TG/trans "community" is true.... Imagine that?!?!
And, sistah MINICA is not at all pleased....
EXCERPTED: --- (WWBT = white woman born trans - LOL)
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MINICA: "Over the last several weeks we've had an infestation of WWBT's on various GLBT blogs spouting their selfish, hateful, transphobic and increasingly insulting rhetoric on various GLBT blogs that one by one has gotten the authors banned".... [Transsexuals being "selfish, hateful, transphobic, insulting" ? Say it isn't so ! ! ! !]
I refuse to let a bunch of clueless, exclusionary latte-sipping racists who have no idea about how politics, much less anything else works (and don't care) try to tear down what I have patiently built up here over the last two plus years.
It's not an issue with African-American transpeople. This is only coming from a small, loud argumentative segment of elderly white transwomen. It's an unwelcome blast from the past that is so 90's..... [You been buggin' folks Bred?]
But unfortunately your vitriol has a negative effect on the transgender community in general, and I believe that's your ultimate goal. You WWBT's not only want to make the community look bad, but want to use the Republican strategy of driving wedges into its constituent parts to break it up....." [Damn, seems Minica agrees with Dirt and me.]
Here is "Minica" going after "Sue" -- you know, "Sue", the post-op who is against gay marriage.
SUE: I have heard it from more then a few of my post-transition friends that you and your ilk are making a mockery of the transgender rights cause. This is the very reason people have been leaving the TG movement in droves. [Droves???]
MINICA: Oh really? The one thing that's making a mockery of the transgender rights cause is the inept way that it's been handled for the last ten years by some peeps that share your ethnic background. [PSSST -- Sue thinks Minica is a reverse racist.]
As for your assertion that people are leaving the movement in droves, got any facts to back that statement up? Methinks you're just counting your whiny clueless 'WBT' peeps who have repeatedly demonstrated breathtaking ignorance on a vast array of subjects and the inability to work and play well with others. ["Whiny, clueless", ya think?]
SUE: You don’t seem to understand you have to work with straight middle class men and women if you want to insure progress in transgender rights. You have to play the game by their rules not Barney Frank’s. [That's right, always play by white, straight rules.]
MINICA: This is priceless. White male privilege in action, folks. You are not only discounting and disrespecting my intelligence and abilities, but have the nerve to try to lecture me about how to pass rights legislation when I've been to Capitol Hill, two state legislatures, and recently the Jefferson County school board to do precisely that. [That's right Minica, hit Sue with yer bona fides.]
SUE: One of those rules is there is only two sexes Men and Women fortunately a large part of the transgender community understands that. [Wait, are we talking bio sex, here, or gender? You folks always conflate the two.]
MINICA: Umm, medical science and biology says otherwise. I think our intersex friends would have a bone to pick with you about your narrow assessment as well. Fortunately a larger section of the transgender community and our allies understand that gender is a continuum, and everybody fits somewhere along that line. The only peeps that share your gender = genitalia dogma besides some of your WBT friends are the Religious Right, the Catholic Church and Barney Frank. [If gender IS a continuum, why change your genitals? Genitals those things that are all about bio sex.... Oh, never mind - I'm just gonna get the "voice in my head" lecture....]
http://transgriot.blogspot.com/2008/01/hateraid-from-wbt.html
VINDICATION THOU ART DIRT'S AND MINE ....
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char Member
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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gender is a continuum, and everybody fits somewhere along that line. The only peeps that share your gender = genitalia dogma besides some of your WBT friends are the Religious Right, the Catholic Church and Barney Frank. [If gender IS a continuum, why change your genitals? Genitals those things that are all about bio sex.... Oh, never mind - I'm just gonna get the "voice in my head" lecture....]
This is The Point!!
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Brenda Member
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 2:37 pm Post subject: |
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At core transsexualism is about being a sex not about gendered behavior. Yes there is a link between sex and gendered behavior but it is more in the form of a bell curve ... than an absolute correlation. That is true for WBW and WBT.
BTW the TG vs TS squabble is because they are different groups with different needs.
- Brenda
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Gynophile Member
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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Leave it to a white man in a dress and grandma shoes to use a raced, Bell Curve analogy.
Mr. Bred why don't you get your mind off your genitals for a split second and join the world of thinking humans.
IT'S ALL ABOUT GENDER CONSTRUCTS otherwise males wouldn't be trying to "pass" as females and using made up terms like wbw or wbt ("woman" speaks to gender). Otherwise, you would call yourselves what you are: transsexuals or transvestites. That's what you really are, after all.
Bred, you don't come across as particularly astute, and you have proven yourself to be dishonest on many, many occasions. But let's try and be a little straight faced about this.... If autogynophiles, like you, were only in it for the sex change, you wouldn't be obsessed with "passing" (you don't "pass", anyway, so why make yourselves crazier?)
If it wasn't about the gender constructs, you'd cut off your junk - skip the "I'm a lady" lessons - and go about your business. You don't do that.... It's all about the gender constructs -- you know it, everyone knows it, you're not kidding anyone, except maybe Mrs. Bred.
The TG/trans intentionally confuse and conflate gender with bio sex - It's part of how ya'll try and get over on people, especially people who aren't well informed.
Whatcha say we demystify your disingenuous rhetoric.....
gender vs. sex
Definition: The distinction between gender and sex is the distinction between socially and culturally created roles on the one side (gender) - and the biological categories of male/female on the other side (sex). This distinction is generally used to highlight the existence of disparities in how power is distributed in societies.
http://atheism.about.com/library/glossary/general/bldef_gender.htm
female relates to bio sex ----- woman relates to gender ----- wbw = gender obsessed transvestite.
In any case Mr. Bred, you're still a male in a dress. You can priss and preen 'til the cows come home, you can buy 100 pairs of grandma shoes - you're still a male in a dress performing a gender construct. No amount of cosmetic surgery will ever change that. Stop those hormones and, voila, all that male biology pops out of hiding.... Hormones and SRS are symptom management --- there is no cure for GID.
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Brenda Member
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 8:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Gynophile wrote: | Leave it to a white man in a dress and grandma shoes to use a raced, Bell Curve analogy.
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Hate to break it to you but the normal distribution ( which is a bell bell curve - I was not refering to the book not the book, don;t know how many have had statistics courses) is simply a fact of nature for complex systems.
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Mr. Bred why don't you get your mind off your genitals for a split second and join the world of thinking humans.
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Obviously you are the obe who does not think logically...
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No it's not... It;s is a about an inborn sense of one's sex that is independent of gender roles ... and there is more and more evidence that it it likely has to do with brain development and that is consistent with my life experience.
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otherwise males wouldn't be trying to "pass" as females and using made up terms like wbw or wbt ("woman" speaks to gender).
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Woman speaks to adult female.actually. This society does not differentiate much between sex and gender. While some things are total constructs for most people some gender traits are are correlated in the sense of a normal distribution with sex and likely have a biological origin as sex recognition is tied to species survival.
You say things are all one way... but that is way to simplistic, The reality is more complex with BOTh nature and nurture involved with gendered behavior. It's been show to be true in animals and it's true in humans as well. The normal distribution is why individual cases don't disprove the link.
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Otherwise, you would call yourselves what you are: transsexuals or transvestites. That's what you really are, after all.
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At least for transsexuals that is NOt how we expeeince ourselves and why we need surgery and get it if we can find a way.
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Bred, you don't come across as particularly astute, and you have proven yourself to be dishonest on many, many occasions.
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Never once. That you don't believe what i have said about my expereinces (suc as teh nurse practitioner and the PAP test) proves only that YOU don't believe it and don't know the qualoty of modern SRS results.
There is not a single thing I have posted that you can actually prove is false.. That stament is simple politically based prejudice.
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But let's try and be a little straight faced about this.... If autogynophiles, like you, were only in it for the sex change, you wouldn't be obsessed with "passing" (you don't "pass", anyway, so why make yourselves crazier?)
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We ID as female human beings... and it is a very human need to be accepted for who you know you are. It 's also human nature to avoid prejudice where possible. So while we are not ashamed if what we had to do to become whole haring it causes people to see a label and not us as individuals an who we are. Why is that so hard for ANYBODY to understand? It's totally and completely what one would expect given human nature. The only answer I can come up is prejudicial beliefs about the nature of transsexualism.
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If it wasn't about the gender constructs, you'd cut off your junk - skip the "I'm a lady" lessons - and go about your business.
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I did exactly that BTW. And I'm no "lady"... While I am civil by nature, I do whatever needs to be done regardless of how the activity is classified gender wise. I don't play ever play the helpless woman for example to get someone to do something for me.
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You don't do that.... It's all about the gender constructs -- you know it, everyone knows it, you're not kidding anyone, except maybe Mrs. Bred.
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Given you don't know anying about my life and how O behave i find it rather intersting tha you pontificate on it... You are making assumption based on the label and not the person.
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The TG/trans intentionally confuse and conflate gender with bio sex - It's part of how ya'll try and get over on people, especially people who aren't well informed.
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Once again you are playing teh game of conflating transsexual and transgender to advance your arguments.
Actually TRANSSEXUALS are more aware of the difference between sex and gender than most WBW... and it's the internal knowledge of one sex that drives TSes to surgery at almost all costs, and the lack of that sense of being female is why TG's don't need surgery (and many of them can't understand why TSes need it either and don't think they really do because THEY don't)
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Definition: The distinction between gender and sex is the distinction between socially and culturally created roles on the one side (gender) - and the biological categories of male/female on the other side (sex). This distinction is generally used to highlight the existence of disparities in how power is distributed in societies.
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That's PARTIALLY true As I said it's not that simple. But transsexualism is not about living in a certain gender role ... that can be accomplished without surgery... and transsexual find that simply does not completely solve the problem even if the are "stealth". being accepted as the type of human being you know you are is important ... but transsexualism goes beyond the social.
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In any case Mr. Bred, you're still a male in a dress. You can priss and preen 'til the cows come home, you can buy 100 pairs of grandma shoes - you're still a male in a dress performing a gender construct.
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Well ganted my chrosmes don't change but as for the rest it's simply not the case. I live my life as who I am. That person has no problem doing things that are ether stereotypically male or female when I have the ability and it's needed. Much like many other women. Everybody does some thing just to fit into society and make life easier. Again you really don't know me and my life as an individual but think you know how i live and interact in the world and if I am being authentically myself or not. This you can not possibly know. You speak about me only from prejudice.
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Stop those hormones and, voila, all that male biology pops out of hiding
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You are a bit ignorant in that area it seems. Some changes fade somewhat and some don't. As a post-op I don't produce significant testosterone so going off HRT is exactly like the effects of menopause with the same results.
Did you ever notice as peopel age the sexes tend to become less distinguishable? That is because of hormone levels.
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.... Hormones and SRS are symptom management --- there is no cure for GID. |
In a sense yes... but it can help quality of life tremendously and allow us to have a life worth living.
- Brenda
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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| free2bme wrote: | | Brenda wrote: | | Gynophile wrote: |
I just out every single one of them. I've never been wrong yet --- even when it come to the pretty gay boys.
The autogynophiles I can spot a city block away. |
So how do you know how many false negatives you have had? And How do you know you are always right? Do these people tell you that you are right or do you just get definite corroboration sometimes and just assume you are right others?
BIW where do you come across all these WBT?
In nay case I have no doubt that some can read me ... but as i said I met some there is no way in hell I would read... and I can assure you I've met a lot more WBT than you and probably a wider variety then you have and that my T-dar is AT LEAST as good as yours...
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You can't assure anything. Gyno and I both live in NYC where you can't take two steps without seeing some dude trying to come off as a woman. Some are better than others, but if you can't read it, then you've probably been living in a cave somewhere.
Gyno, have you seen the guy on the 6 train who's a dead ringer for Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie? I don't know who he's trying to fool. |
I don't have occasion to take the #6 much these days - it's an East Side train, I'm Westie (B or C train to Fulton, then the #2 or 3 to Bergen). Mostly, I drive or ride the Harley over the BB....
I did hit a dude dressed as Barbara Streisand not too long ago. Clipped him in a crosswalk. His wig shot off his head like a flying squirrel in heat. It went half a block before it landed in an awning at the corner of DeKalb. Some old lady jumped outta a dollar van and was on that sucker in a flash. You wouldn't think an old lady could scale a security gate like that. She was in the wind before Babs even stopped tumbling. Wasn't any damage to the car, so I drove off. I could hear Babs yellin' for a coupla blocks. Somethin' about me bein' a transphobe..... Bred, that wasn't you, was it?
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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posted by Bred
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See....I am actually Annie Oakley. I have known this since I was small child. I even have the blonde pigtails and hat to prove it. As soon as I can afford it, I'm getting a horse. Then no one will know the difference.
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 9:29 pm Post subject: |
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Bred's talkin' faux scientific again.
His childhood "female essence" myth is bound to follow .....
Doesn't it make ya all tingly - like ya got a hairy caterpillar crawlin' down yer spine.....
Ya know, him knowing what it's like to be female at age 3, 4 5, whatever.
Autogynophiles are the anointed ones - they know what it's like to be female even before actual females know. It's magical, I tell you. It's probably the voices in their heads; they tell them all about it. Yep, those autogynophiles just know these things. They never have to live as a female, go through puberty, menstruate, go through socialization as a young woman or adult - they just know these things.
It does make it difficult to understand why they need these things:
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